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7 Conversation Starters That Attract ALL Women
- The Direct Opener: This one is risky, but when it works, it works amazingly well. It’s straightforward: you approach her wherever she is—on the street, in a coffee shop, at a party, at a restaurant (preferably when she’s alone)—and say, “Hey, I know this is random, but I thought you were really cute and wanted to meet you.” It’s direct, no beating around the bush. I’m telling you, most guys don’t do this. If a guy approached a woman like this, she’d appreciate it. First, you’re giving a compliment—she’ll likely say, “Thank you.” Plus, you’re showing you’re aware of the social awkwardness of the moment, which is attractive because it’s not creepy; it’s genuine. It’s creepy when someone doesn’t understand that they’re coming across oddly. When you go up to her, be confident and present yourself with masculine energy. Say, “Hey, I know this is random, but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you.” Be direct, avoid unnecessary pauses, and deliver with certainty. She’ll know you’re interested, not just making conversation. Women like this approach because it’s rare—many guys act shy or indirect. If you get a positive response, great! If not, just walk away. Smile confidently, though; don’t give off a negative vibe.
- The Social Opener: This one works well in social settings, like at a party. You might say, “Hey, I don’t think we’ve met.” This sends a few signals. First, you’re interested in getting to know her, and second, it hints that you’re a sociable person. She’ll think, “Oh, he knows people here, and I’m the new person.” Being social and familiar with others is attractive and can subtly imply social status. Women appreciate men who can socialize well.
- The Opinion Opener: This is when you ask her for a suggestion or recommendation. For instance, at a coffee shop, say, “Hey, do you have any recommendations? It’s my first time here.” If she’s a regular, she’ll enjoy sharing her favorite drinks. This also works at a restaurant or bar—ask, “Do you come here often? Any recommendations?” You’re not coming across as hitting on her; it’s an easy way to start a conversation without pressure.
- The Cold Read: Here, you make a statement about her personality, mood, or background. For example, if she’s looking around on the street, say, “You look a bit lost; need any help?” She’ll see you as helpful. Or if you’re at the gym, say, “You don’t seem like you’re from this area,” which could spark her curiosity about how you noticed that. People generally want to know why you made that assumption, so it’s a great conversation starter.
- The Situational Opener: Just comment on what’s happening around you. At a loud event, you might say, “It’s so loud in here!” or at a concert, “Have you seen them play before?” Using the situation makes it easy to start talking without being forced.
- The Prop Opener: This is about commenting on something she’s holding or wearing. If she has a unique drink at a bar, say, “That drink looks amazing—what is it?” Or if she’s wearing a cool hoodie, ask, “Where’d you get that hoodie? It’s awesome!” This type of opener is great because it shows interest in her style or choices, not just her.
- The Disarming Opener: Here, you simply ask a casual question to break the ice. For example, ask, “Do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?” Even if you know it’s close by. Or at a party, ask where the restroom is, even If you already know. Once she responds, you can follow up with, “By the way, I’m Antoine.” This approach doesn’t come across as trying too hard, just friendly.